All Trends and Traditions
Sixpence for Your Shoe
This custom comes from the saying "Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a sixpence for your shoe." The bride is to include these things in her wedding attire for good luck.
The breaking of the glass in a Jewish
ceremony means that the bond shall never break.
Ribbon Pull
Here is a traditional Victorian wedding event in which a sterling silver charm is purchased for each of the bridesmaids. A ribbon is tied to each one and the baker places them between layers of the wedding cake as it is being assembled. Before the bride and groom share the first slice of cake, the bridesmaids gather so that each can pull one ribbon, claiming a "ribbon pull" that holds the promise of her future (e.g., next to marry, lucky in life, hope, adventure).
In Ireland, English lavendar is a traditional herb often used in the bouquet. Also, it is common for the bride to braid her hair; this is considered a sacred way to retain female power and luck.
Save some extra fabric from your veil: tulle, lace, or whatever you're using. I used mine for a Christmas tree angel and a petticoat in my son's christening robe. The lasting reminders of our wedding day have brightened our special occasions.
In Finland there are a few wedding traditions (perhaps adopted from other countries) that have become quite popular recently: The last dance at the reception is called the weaning-waltz. The band plays a waltz (no singing), and women start to dance with the bride and men with the groom. Even the children can take part. Each person dances only for a moment with the bride/groom. The dance is a humorous way to test how quickly the bride and groom will forget each other. At the end of the weaning-waltz, the newlyweds can dance together again.
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