Introduction
This paper examines the ways in which a select number of immigrant Persian Baháí families have carried their cultural values to the United States, how this move has affected the development of their children, how the parents have interacted with the larger society and what effect participation in the American Baháí community has had on the cultural adaptation process. The data for this study were drawn from a survey of parents and children conducted in 1997 and from the authors personal experience with this cultural group. For the purpose of this study, the survey was constrained to two-parent households in the Los Angeles, California area with at least one employed breadwinner fluent in English, both parents immigrant Persian Baháís, and at least one English-speaking child of school age available to participate in the survey.
The goal of this study was to ascertain the cultural identity of the Persian Baháí parents and their children and note areas of congruence and divergence. The survey asked participants to respond to a variety of statements concerning perceptions about Persian culture, their involvement with the American school system, marriage and child-rearing, and overall level of activity in the American Baháí community. The questions included both topics unique to each group as well as a few questions in common to form the basis for a comparison by generation.
Overview of the Baháí Faith
The Baháí (ba-HIGH) Faith is a world religion based on the teachings of Baháulláh (ba-HA-oo-LAH) [1817-1892] that began in Persia (now Iran). The Baháí faith is the most widely spread religion in the world today after Christianity and claims approximately six million adherents in over 200 countries and territories. The central principles of the Baháí Faith are the oneness of God, the oneness of mankind and a common spiritual foundation to the worlds great religious systems. Arising from these principles are several social teachings embraced by all Baháís, regardless of culture: the independent investigation of the truth; the equality of man and women; the abolition of all forms of prejudice; science and religion must be in harmony; universal compulsory education; the use of an international auxiliary language; the protection of cultural diversity; and that there is a spiritually-based and practical solution to the worlds economic problems (Baháí International Community 1992).
The Baháí community has no priesthood but is instead organized around democratically elected governing bodies at the local, national and international levels. To date the Baháí Faith has avoided many of the division and schisms that fractured previous religions that followed the death of the founder. This is important for the Persian Baháís of this study because in addition to being members of a mother culture they can also claim membership in what many historians are now coming to recognize as the first truly cohesive, global community.
History of the Persian Baháí Community
The Baháís are the largest minority group in Iran, numbering approximately five hundred thousand persons. Nonetheless, since its inception in the mid 1800s, the Persian Baháí community has suffered consecutive waves of persecution in the country of its origin. Within the first twenty-five years, many thousands of adherents were systematically executed by institutions of the Islamic state in the name of preserving traditional Islamic values. Baháulláh himself was exiled from the country in 1852 and eventually passed away in Akka (near Haifa, Israel), still a political prisoner (Zahoori 1990).
The most recent wave of refugees of Persians to the US has resulted from persecutions connected to the 1979 Iranian Islamic Revolution. The US Congress and United Nations have condemned these pogroms, including a recently uncovered Iranian government mandate to destroy the Persian Baháí cultural roots in Iran and abroad. These persecutions continue despite Baháí teachings and impartial testimony of outside groups that obedience to government and reverence for Islam are cornerstones of the Baháí faith. Almost all the families participating in this survey have fled to the US (or remained here) as a direct result of this latest wave of persecution.
Results of the Survey
Two separate questionnaires, with twenty-five questions each, were developed by the author for this study. The participants were asked to respond to a variety of statements about culture and family life, schooling and Baháí community life, with a range of possible responses: Strongly Agree (True), Generally Agree, Generally Disagree or Strongly Disagree (False). The numerical results of this survey are included at the end of this paper. The children were asked to fill out one version of the questionnaire individually while the parents were asked to complete their questionnaire as a couple.
Each of the eight families surveyed could be described as middle class or upper middle class and in about one-half of the families the breadwinner was self-employed. The gender of the children was 8 males and 9 females. Their ages ranged from 10 to 31 years old, with a median age of 15.7 years. All the parents surveyed were Persian and Baháí and all the children and parents are active, English-speaking members of the Baháí Faith.
Cultural Self-Identification of the Children
Nearly all the seventeen children in the survey were
raised her in the United States. Their cultural self-identification
split evenly on the notion of being more Persian than
American with a majority considering themselves about
equally Persian and American. One ten-year-old girl
insisted rather emphatically that she is a world citizen
and was uncomfortable with being placed in any one
national category. Nonetheless, in one-half of the
families both of these notions could be found among
the children. In one family, though, the two oldest
respondents (sisters, aged 26 and 31) chose to strongly
disagree with both these statements, as did the only
child of another family.
As a group the children do not consider the local Persian immigrant population as their primary source for new friends and acquaintances but they do very much enjoy some aspects of Persian culture (food, music) in their leisure time outside the home. Though almost all the children have attended some kind of special Persian language or cultural classes, they are split on their enthusiasm for speaking the Persian language (Farsi) with friends outside the home.
Children and the School Environment
The majority of the children have attended private primary
or secondary school at some point but as a group are
split on the perception that the school system is supportive
of their Persian culture. One high school girl identified
a male instructor who dislikes Persians in general
but views her as a nice exception. While just a few
children have experiences problems with other students
because of prejudice against Persians, all of them
report no difficulty in sharing their Baháí Faith
with their classmates or speaking up to correct someone
who has confused them with Persian Muslims. With regard
to fitting in into the school milieu, the group
is split on the notion that it is easier to get along
with Americans than non-Baháí Persians (i.e. Muslims),
or that their parents involvement in school has made
a big impact on their acculturation. Although explaining
Persian family values to their friends can sometimes
be difficult, neither the Persian culture nor the Baháí
belief system (with its emphasis on sexual abstinence
before marriage) appear to be a social obstacle.
Children and Life Choices
The children reported little if any parental pressure
in how they selected their friends and a s a group
are split on the notion that social class and education
are the dominant factor in the process in choosing
friends. For a potential spouse, however, the clear
preference is to marry another Baháí, even if that
person is not a Persian. In fact the group as a whole
is very much against the notion of marrying someone
simply because of culture. Nearly all the children,
however, expect to live with their parents until they
get married and expect their children, in turn, to
be able to speak Farsi.
Within the Persian Baháí household, nearly all the children report that their parents expected them to officially declared themselves members of the Baháí community at the age of maturity (15 years old). The children generally (though not wholeheartedly) consider their parents to be good examples of what it means to be an active member of the Baháí community. All the children report attending at least one Baháí function a month apart from family functions.
Cultural Adaptation by the Parents
In addition to leaving their homeland to avoid persecution
for being Baháí, nearly all the couples surveyed suffered
a period of separation from family members as a results
of their forced emigration. In one case, a father managed
to get his family safely out of Iran before the Islamic
Revolution, only to become detained again when he went
back to take care of personal affairs. He eventually
escaped in secret through Pakistan with other countrymen.
The parents see aspects of the Persian culture such as language, music and food as an important gift to their children but are not overly worried that American culture might be somehow making their children less Persian. They do not, however, support the notion that it would automatically be easier for the children to grow up as good Baháís back in Iran, even if the persecutions magically stopped. As for their own adaptation to American culture, the parents view their children as an important but not the only significant factor.
Parental Expectations for Children
The parents as a group would prefer their children (daughters
a bit more than sons) to live at home until they get
married, though they realize that this may not be possible,
especially as it pertains to the child attending a
good college. The parents are very strongly in favor
of their child marrying another Baháí and are definitely
against the notion of marrying someone just because
the person is an Iranian. They overwhelmingly expect
that their grandchildren will speak Farsi.
School Involvement
The parents as a group believe that the schools (both
public and private) do not do enough to promote spiritual
values in the curriculum or to encourage their childrens
Persian heritage, Nonetheless, all but one parent actively
participates in school-related activities e.g. PTA,
fund-raisers) and all the parents generally feel comfortable
sharing with other (American) parents the role the
Baháí Faith plays in their lives.
Involvement in the American Baháí Community
All the parents consider themselves active Baháís and
interact at least once a month with non-Persians through
their local Baháí community. In general, they do not
fear that heir children will fail to grow up to be
active Baháís. All but two couples agree that being
Baháí has made it easier for them as parents to adapt
to life in the US.
Perceptions of the Persian Immigrant Community in
the US
While the parents do not report any real difficulties
in interacting with non-Baháí Persians in the US (i.e.
usually Muslims) they do believe that the Persian Baháí
immigrant community in this country is noticeably distinct
from the Persian Muslim immigrant community. This survey
did not ask them to elaborate on these differences,
though most parents attribute the distinct Persian
Baháí cultural identity to social class and education,
not necessarily to difference in religion.
Conclusions
One conclusion from this study is that for this limited group of families, the acculturation process is moving along fairly smoothly and with benefits to both parent and child. With regard to cultural values in the home and expectations for marriage, the children and parents are in remarkably close agreement. The parents have made significant efforts to inculcate an appreciation for Persian heritage into their children and can claim some success in this matter. There is no evidence of the extreme cultural reactions sometimes seen in refugee families: total abandonment of the home culture by children ashamed of their parents heritage (Cummins 1986) or the formation of xenophobic enclaves with a very limited circles of associates. A combination of factors such as a generally high level of parental education, a relatively adequate economic condition, and regular access to non-Persians through the American Baháí community all seem to have mitigated the social and psychological pressured normally experienced by refugees.
The culturally supportive nature of the Baháí community and the role of English in the home are also important factors for this group of families. As noted by Geula (1991), the Persian language and customs can serve as the glue to maintain family unity (and contact with relatives back in Iran) while the acquisition of English serves to improve the economic prospects and global citizenship of the children. As Baháís, the parents of these children not only appreciate the utility of this outward-looking bi-culturalism, they actually advocate it. This sense of mission separates them from their non-Baháí countrymen who may have come to the US for purely political or economic reasons.
In fact, the Persian Baháí community has a long tradition of (willingly) leaving Iran to demonstrate the efficacy of the Baháí teachings by moving as pioneers to towns and village around the world. A few of the children surveyed have been sent abroad by their parents ion teaching vacations and at least one family has actually vacationed overseas for this same purpose. This suggests that within the context of the American Baháí community these Persian families find enough support for their mother culture that they can embark on developing a family sub-culture of their own, something that Popenoe (1988) states is a powerful element of trans-generational family unity.
In summary, this survey of a limited number of Persian families suggests that it is possible for immigrant families to find support for their traditions within a generally indifferent American society. paradoxically, as in the case of the American Baháí community, such a support system can engender loyalty to a broader spectrum of humanity. In the process of children becoming world citizens, the fears of parents regarding cultural inheritance subside because through this paradigm the children are actually able to carry abroad and contribute to human society the best that the mother culture has to offer.
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Geula, Keyvan (1991) The role of an international auxiliary language in the cultural welfare of ethnic families in transition: Presentation of a board game for teaching Persian to the Persian children abroad. Unpublished Master of Science research paper, University of La Verne, California.
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Appendix: Survey Results
Please read the following questions and
choose one of the following responses that best represents
your opinion:
Strongly Agree (SA) Generally Agree
(GA), Generally Disagree (GD), Strongly Disagree
(SD)
| QUESTIONS FOR THE PARENTS (Please respond as a couple) | SA |
GA |
GD |
SD |
| 1. The parents of this family are both Baháís. | 8 |
0 |
||
| 2. The parents of this family are both Persian. | 8 |
0 |
||
| 3. Our family left Iran to avoid persecution related to the 1979 Revolution. | 4 |
4 |
||
| 4. Our family left Iran before persecution of the Baháís became a major problem. | 7 |
1 |
||
| 5. Leaving Iran caused some family members to be separated for a time. | 7 |
1 |
||
| 6. Most or all of our children were born and raised in the US. | 7 |
1 |
||
| 7. Our children have played a big part in helping us adapt to the American culture. | 1 |
4 |
2 |
1 |
| 8. A big part of being Persian is the ability to appreciate and practice the fine arts (music, cooking, dance, art). | 3 |
4 |
1 |
0 |
| 9. We are concerned that the influence of American culture is making our children less Persian. | 1 |
4 |
3 |
0 |
| 10. It would be easier for our children to maintain Baháí values back in Iran, were it not for the persecution. | 1 |
2 |
4 |
1 |
| 11. It is O.K. if a son moves out of the house before he is married, if he can afford it. | 0 |
5 |
3 |
0 |
| 12. It is O.K. if a daughter moves out of the house before she is married, if she can afford it. | 0 |
3 |
2 |
3 |
| 13. We would prefer that our children marry another Persian (even if he/she is not a Baháí). | 0 |
0 |
5 |
3 |
| 14. We would feel comfortable if our children married another Baháí, regardless of culture. | 3 |
5 |
0 |
0 |
| 15. We expect our grand-children to speak Farsi. | 4 |
3 |
1 |
0 |
| 16. The curriculum at our childs school does not place enough emphasis on spiritual values. | 5 |
2 |
1 |
0 |
| 17. As parents, we regularly participate in school-related events (PTA, fund-raisers). | 5 |
2 |
1 |
0 |
| 18. We freely discuss with other school parents the role of the Baháí Faith in our family life. | 2 |
6 |
0 |
0 |
| 19. Our childrens school actively respects and encourages their Persian heritage. | 1 |
1 |
4 |
2 |
| 20. As a family we participate at least once a month in the Baháí community with non-Persians. | 8 |
0 |
||
| 21. We sometimes are concerned that all our children will not be active Baháí as adults. | 0 |
1 |
4 |
3 |
| 22. Being Baháí can make it difficult to associate with Persian Muslims in this country. | 1 |
1 |
4 |
2 |
| 23. The Persian Baháí community is noticeably distinct from the other Persians in the US. | 2 |
6 |
0 |
0 |
| 24. Cultural differences between Persians in the US are mostly due to social class and education, not religion. | 2 |
5 |
1 |
0 |
| 25. Being Baháí has made it easier for us as parents to adapt to American culture. | 2 |
4 |
0 |
2 |
| QUESTIONS FOR THE CHILD | SA |
GA |
GD |
SD |
| 1. I consider myself more Persian than American. | 8 |
9 |
||
| 2. I consider myself to be about equally American and Persian. | 12 |
5 |
||
| 3. I enjoy things about Persian culture (food, music) in my free time outside the home. | 14 |
3 |
||
| 4. I expect to find my closest friends among other Persians. | 2 |
4 |
6 |
5 |
| 5. I have attended special classes to appreciate Persian culture (e.g. Farsi language, music). | 14 |
3 |
||
| 6. I like to speak Farsi with my Persian friends outside the home. | 3 |
7 |
6 |
1 |
| 7. I have attended a private grade school/high school. | 5 |
12 |
||
| 8. I feel that teachers and administrators at school respect and encourage my Persian culture. | 5 |
7 |
3 |
2 |
| 9. I have had problems with other students because of prejudice against Persians. | 4 |
13 |
||
| 10. I feel comfortable discussing the Baháí Faith with my classmates. | 5 |
12 |
0 |
0 |
| 11. My parents involvement with school has helped me fit into the American culture. | 2 |
5 |
4 |
6 |
| 12. My parents pretty much let me choose my own friends. | 7 |
5 |
3 |
2 |
| 13. I generally get along better with Americans than with non-Baháí Persians. | 9 |
0 |
7 |
1 |
| 14. If people mistake me for a Muslim, I speak up right away to correct them. | 12 |
5 |
0 |
0 |
| 15. I sometimes have trouble explaining Persian family values to my American friends. | 2 |
7 |
4 |
4 |
| 16. I sometimes feel a conflict between being a Baháí and wanting to fit in with my friends. | 4 |
1 |
5 |
7 |
| 17. It is better for a Persian to marry another Persian (even if he/she is not a Baháí). | 0 |
3 |
3 |
11 |
| 18. It is better for a Baháí to marry another Baháí , regardless of culture. | 10 |
6 |
1 |
0 |
| 19. I think the Persian family culture is sometimes too strict with children. | 5 |
4 |
4 |
4 |
| 20. I would like to live (or did live) with my parents until getting married. | 12 |
5 |
||
| 21. I think that a persons social class and education determine whom he/she will pick as friends. | 5 |
5 |
6 |
1 |
| 22. I expect that my children will be able to speak Farsi. | 13 |
2 |
2 |
0 |
| 23. I participate in Baháí activities at least once a month apart from my parents. | 17 |
0 |
||
| 24. My parents expect(ed) me to declare myself a Baháí when I become fifteen years old. | 14 |
3 |
||
| 25. I look to my parents as examples of what it means to be an active Baháí. | 10 |
5 |
1 |
1 |
Stephen Licata in an aerospace engineer who lives and
works in Pasadena, California with his Peruvian wife
Juliana and their one-year-old son Jimmy. This paper
was written in 1997 as Stephen completed the UCLA certificate
program in Teaching English as a Foreign Language.
Stephen and Juliana often give public talks on Bahai
family life and travel frequently in the hope that
they can impart to their son the same world citizenship
perspective enjoyed by many of the young people in
this survey. Stephen may be reached by e-mail at sjlsre@aol.com.